In the 1980s, John McEnroe was the talk of the nation, not only because of his talent for tennis, but because of his temper. He’s still on top 10 lists for worst temper tantrums. Though he’s one of the greatest tennis players of all time, he’s forever remembered for shouting, “You cannot be serious!”
The vexation of a fool is known at once, but the prudent ignores an insult. Proverbs 12:16
When someone hurts you, losing your temper only gets you in trouble or hurts others. It can help to meditate on verses like these: “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.” (Ephesians 4:31); “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1); and, “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness that God requires.” (James 1:19-20)
When antagonized, ask God to help you “walk away.” And pray the nation’s leaders will be able to talk together over hot topics and come up with solutions using kindness and restraint, not stirring up hatred and antagonism.
Recommended Reading: Luke 4:20-30