Popular culture urges you to believe that love is some kind of romance that shows up unexpectedly and magically sweeps you off your feet. A recent article in Psychology Today suggests that kind of love is emotional junk food – cheap and probably not so good for you. True love, they said, is a learned skill, not something that comes from hormones or emotion. German social psychologist Erich Fromm called it “an act of the will” and “other-focused.”

May the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another.

I Thessalonians 3:12

Increasing in love for one another, Paul says, is part of a growing faith. You cannot grow to maturity in Christ unless you learn how to love other Christians. And that love comes from a supernatural source – God Himself. He alone gives you love for one another. It is the Lord who establishes that love…and it is He who causes it to increase.

Just as oxygen is essential to breathing and benefits your physical health, so love is essential to your emotional life by staving off depression, and to your spiritual life by developing your faith. Prayers for one another express expanding love. Include the nation’s leaders and their spiritual health in your intercessory time today. You’ll both benefit.

Recommended Reading: I Thessalonians 3:4-13