You do not have, because you do not ask.[Or] you do ask [God for them] and yet fail to receive, because you ask with wrong purpose and evil, selfish motives. Your intention is [when you get what you desire] to spend it in sensual pleasures. – James 4:2-3
There are some things in the Word of God that are so clear that we never have to pray, “if it be Thy will.” Salvation is a good example. In 1 Timothy 2:3-4 the Bible states that it is God’s desire that all should be saved and come to a knowledge of Him. I would never pray, “Dear Father in heaven, I ask in Jesus’ name that you save _____, if it be Thy will.” I already know it is His will to save that person.
James 4:2 says we have not because we do not ask. Verse 3 says that sometimes we ask and yet fail to receive because we ask with wrong purpose and evil, selfish motives. I realize that sometimes it is hard to believe that of ourselves; but, nonetheless, it is true. It is especially true of the believer who has not allowed the purification process of God to take place in his life. In that state, a person has God in him, but he also has an abundance of “self ” in him.
I believe that in those instances when what we are asking for is not clearly spelled out in the Word and we are not positive that we have heard from God about the issue, it is wise and an act of true submission to pray, “if it be Thy will.”
I do not personally feel that I am weak in faith if I pray, “Lord, I want this thing—if it is Your will, if it fits in with Your plan, if it is Your best for me, and if it is Your timing.” Proverbs 3:7 says, “Be not wise in your own eyes.” I have taken this verse to heart and believe it has saved me a great deal of agony. We must resist the temptation to play “Holy Ghost Jr.” Instead, we must let God be God.
