Our Daily Bread – Wise Restraint in God

 

Do you see someone who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for them. Proverbs 29:20

Today’s Scripture

Proverbs 29:4-11, 20

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Proverbs 29 cautions us to restrain and overcome our anger. “The wise turn away anger” (v. 8), whereas “fools give full vent to their rage” (v. 11). An angry person inevitably “stirs up conflict, and a hot-tempered person commits many sins” (v. 22). Unrestrained anger resulted in humanity’s first murder. God warned Cain to rein in his anger lest he be consumed by it. Succumbing to his anger, Cain killed his own brother in cold blood (Genesis 4:6-8). Moses, another classic example, killed an Egyptian taskmaster in a moment of rage (Exodus 2:11-12). Years later, angered by the Israelites’ persistent grumblings, Moses disobeyed and dishonored God and unsympathetically disparaged God’s people by striking the rock (Numbers 20:1-13). The psalmist says that “they made Moses angry, and he spoke foolishly” (Psalm 106:33 nlt). Indeed, “A quick-tempered person does foolish things” (Proverbs 14:17). Paul warns, “Don’t sin by letting anger control you . . . for anger gives a foothold to the devil” (Ephesians 4:26-27 nlt).

Today’s Devotional

Following the South’s catastrophic loss at Gettysburg in the American Civil War (1863), General Robert E. Lee led his battered troops back to Southern territory. Heavy rains flooded the Potomac River, blocking his retreat. President Abraham Lincoln urged General George Meade to attack. But Meade’s men were just as weary as Lee’s. He rested his troops.

Lincoln picked up his quill and wrote a letter in which he confessed he was “distressed immeasurably” at Meade’s reluctance to pursue Lee. On the envelope are these words in the president’s handwriting: “To Gen. Meade, never sent, or signed.” And indeed, it never was.

Long before Lincoln, another great leader grasped the importance of reining in our emotions. Anger, no matter how justified, is a dangerously powerful force. “Do you see someone who speaks in haste?” King Solomon asked. “There is more hope for a fool than for them” (Proverbs 29:20). Solomon knew that “by justice a king gives a country stability” (v. 4). He also understood that “fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end” (v. 11).

And in the end, not sending that letter prevented Lincoln from demoralizing his top general, helped win a necessary war, and contributed to the healing of a nation. We do well to learn from examples like his of wise restraint.

Reflect & Pray

Why is it important to cautiously give vent to your emotions? How will you do this the next time you’re angry?

Father, I give my emotions to You so that Your Spirit will help me avoid speaking in haste.

For further study, read Why Am I Angry? Understanding Anger’s Roots.

 

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Joyce Meyer – Jesus Is the Best Kind of Helper

 

Although He was a Son, He learned [active, special] obedience through what He suffered and, [His completed experience] making Him perfectly [equipped], He became the Author and Source of eternal salvation to all those who give heed and obey Him.

Hebrews 5:8–9 (AMPC)

Have you ever tried to figure out how to make a gadget or an electronic device work properly? That kind of thing comes easily to people who know a lot about technology. But it can be very frustrating to people like me, who aren’t technologically savvy and who just want the device to work! I have learned that if I accidentally hit the wrong button on my phone and start having trouble with it, all I need to do is look for a young person to help me. Though I am older, and I have much more life experience than a sixth grader who can fix my phone, that child has something I do not have: specific experience with today’s technology. I may know a lot in some areas, but I can’t fix my phone; I need help, and the best kind of helper is one with experience.

Jesus has all the experience required to help us along our healing journey. Hebrews 5:8–9 speaks volumes to me not only about Him but also about my life and yours. Jesus needed certain experience in order to truly understand our pain and become our High Priest who can help us heal. My experience with Jesus’ healing power makes me a good person to boldly tell others He will heal their wounded souls just as He has healed mine, and your experience will do the same for you.

Jesus suffered greatly and gained experience as a result. His experience equipped Him to fulfill what God wanted Him to do. Hebrews 4:15 says He is able to understand and sympathize and have a shared feeling with our weaknesses (AMPC) because He has already gone through the things we suffer. I hope you will think about this verse often and allow it to give you hope and confidence that what you are going through will enable you to help others.

I encourage you today, even at this moment, to offer your experience to God for His use if you have never done that. No matter how confusing, painful, or difficult it may be, He can use it to provide the experience you need to help someone else. I vividly remember praying one day, “God, I am a broken mess, but I’m Yours if You can use me.” He did. He chose to use me in specific ways to help others, and I believe there is a specific way He wants to use you, too. Nothing we give to God is ever wasted, so give Him your pain today and see how He will use your experience.

Prayer of the Day: Lord, use my pain and experiences to help others. Teach me to trust You with my journey, knowing You can turn every hardship into healing for someone else, amen.

 

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Denison Forum – Sheryl Crow sells her Tesla, donates funds to NPR

 

Should celebrities tell us how to vote?

Singer and songwriter Sheryl Crow made headlines over the weekend by posting an Instagram video in which she waves goodbye to her Tesla as it is driven away. She explained: “There comes a time when you have to decide who you are willing to align with. So long Tesla.”

She added: “Money donated to @npr, which is under threat by President Musk, in hopes that the truth will continue to find its way to those willing to know the truth.” She included hashtags for “PresidentMusk” and “ProtectTheConstitution.”

Actor Gabriel Basso, who stars in the Netflix thriller The Night Agent and played a young JD Vance in Hillbilly Elegytakes a different approach. “I don’t believe that actors should be famous,” he said, speaking out against celebrities who use their platforms to deliver political messages. “We’re saying words that we’re told to say,” he stated. “We’re told how to say them, we’re told where to stand. And then we’re telling people how to vote?”

He believes that an entertainer’s job is “illegitimate in that way.” In his view, “We’re court jesters. We’re entertaining. We’re public servants. We’re there to perform, to entertain. And then all of a sudden, the jester, because he’s in the courtroom, starts to be like, ‘I might want to go sit on the throne!’”

 “The man who would not be king”

The preponderance of celebrities seeking political influence across the partisan spectrum stands in sharp contrast with the hero our nation celebrates today.

Presidents’ Day (sometimes spelled President’s Day or Presidents Day) is officially Washington’s Birthday at the federal level. Since 1879, the US has honored George Washington in this way. And appropriately so: He led the Continental Army to victory in the American Revolutionary War, presided at the Constitutional Convention of 1787, and served as the first US president from 1789 to 1797.

However, he was in many ways a reluctant hero who avoided celebrity whenever he could.

When asked to lead the army, he responded, “I do not think myself equal to the Command I am honored with.” After winning the War for Independence, he was reluctant to lead the Constitutional Convention lest he be perceived as grasping for power. When elected president, he lamented that he lacked the “competency of political skill . . . necessary to manage the helm” and said, “Integrity & firmness is all I can promise.”

When he voluntarily stepped down after his second term as president, a dumbfounded King George III proclaimed him “the greatest character of the age.” Historian Matthew Spalding calls him “the man who would not be king” and notes that “no one walked away from power with more dignity.”

Washington exhorted his fellow citizens: “The name of ‘American’ which belongs to you, in your national capacity, must always exalt the just pride of Patriotism.” But his sacrificial and humble patriotism made him the “father” of our nation in ways no words could.

Now it’s our turn.

We must be the change we wish to see

An article on the proliferation of pornography in popular culture notes: “The logical endgame of the sexual revolution has been to turn sex into a recreational activity whose only meaning is defined by the people experiencing it, and whose only moral issues center around consent.”

The facts regarding the devastation of pornography are clear, from its ties to sex trafficking and child abuse to the brain damage it causes. However, given its pervasiveness, if Christians want our broken culture to adopt biblical morality regarding sexual purity, we will first have to model it ourselves. Only when we “remain faithful to one another in marriage” (Hebrews 13:4 NLT) can we expect others to follow our example.

In other news, New York Gov. Kathy Hochul rejected a request from Louisiana to extradite a doctor who prescribed abortion pills to a pregnant minor in their state, violating their strict anti-abortion law. According to Louisiana authorities, the girl who received the pills experienced a medical emergency and had to be transported to the hospital.

The facts regarding the devastation of abortion are clear, from its emotional damage and medical risks for mothers who choose it to the tragedy that more than sixty-three million babies have lost their lives since the procedure was legalized in 1973. However, despite bans in many states, the number of abortions in the US actually increased in 2023.

Given the pervasiveness of abortion, if Christians want our broken culture to adopt biblical morality regarding the sanctity of life, we will first have to model it ourselves. Only when we “bless” children as Jesus did (Mark 10:16) by encouraging adoption and caring for women with at-risk pregnancies can we expect others to follow our example.

I could go on, but you understand the point. In a secularized culture that rejects biblical authority, we must be the change we wish to see. This is only fair: If we claim that Jesus transforms people into “new creations” (2 Corinthians 5:17), the world has a right to expect such transformation in us.

How “Christ takes shape in a believer”

Imagine the difference in America if every American Christian imitated Jesus; where we asked, “What Would Jesus Do?” and lived accordingly. Consider the evangelists we would become, the ministry we would share, the obedience we would model.

Here’s what makes imitating Jesus different from emulating any other laudatory figure of history: Jesus will help us do so.

St. Augustine observed:

Christ takes shape in a believer through the faith that is in his inmost soul. Such a believer, gentle and humble of heart, is called to the freedom of grace. He does not boast of the merit he gains from good works, for they are worth nothing. It is grace itself that is the beginning of merit . . . [as] Christ is formed within the believer who accepts the form of Christ, who comes close to Christ by means of spiritual love.

How can we “come close to Christ” today?

  1. Make it our ambition to imitate Jesus (cf. Romans 8:29). This and nothing less must be our highest purpose in life.
  2. Admit we cannot imitate Jesus without his help. Ask his Spirit to “fill” and control us (Ephesians 5:18), manifesting the “fruit” of his character in our lives (Galatians 5:22–23) and using us to demonstrate Christ to the culture.
  3. Join the Spirit in our sanctification through prayer, Bible study, worship, and other spiritual disciplines. These position us to experience the transformation only God can make in our lives.
  4. Measure success by service. As with Jesus’ earthly ministry (Matthew 20:28), the consequences of our faithfulness will far outlive our obedience.

St. Augustine assured us:

“The believer who imitates Christ becomes . . .  the same as Christ whom he imitates.”

Will you seek to become “the same as Christ” today?

Quote for the day:

“Almighty and eternal Lord God, the great Creator of heaven and earth, and the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, look down from heaven in pity and compassion upon me thy servant, who humbly prostate myself before thee.” —George Washington

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Days of Praise – Daniel the President

 

by Henry M. Morris, Ph.D.

“It pleased Darius to set over the kingdom an hundred and twenty princes, which should be over the whole kingdom; and over these three presidents; of whom Daniel was first: that the princes might give accounts unto them, and the king should have no damage.” (Daniel 6:1-2)

Not many people realize that the godly prophet Daniel was the first president of the great Medo-Persian-Babylonian empire!

Of course, Daniel’s office did not correlate directly with that of an American president, being appointive rather than elective and being subject to the emperor, but he nevertheless had great authority. Many translations use the word “governor” instead of “president”—the original language was Aramaic in this case rather than Hebrew.

In any case, Daniel was a God-fearing Hebrew rather than a Persian or Babylonian and so soon drew the envy and resentment of the other “presidents” and “princes” of the empire. But the only charge they could make against him (there was no hint of scandal or corruption in his character or activities, unlike certain nominally Christian presidents in our own country) was that he was too “religious,” worshiping openly the true God of creation instead of the nature gods of the pagans. “They could find none occasion nor fault; forasmuch as he was faithful, neither was there any error or fault found in him” (Daniel 6:4).

It is sadly true that such a testimony could never have been given concerning any American president, not even Washington or Lincoln, as great and praiseworthy as they were. Nevertheless, God reminds us “that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; for kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty” (1 Timothy 2:1-2). HMM

 

 

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My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers – The Initiative against Discouragement

 

An angel touched him and said, “Get up and eat.” — 1 Kings 19:5

When the angel came to Elijah, the prophet was in a terrible state, huddled under a bush in the wilderness, afraid and miserable and wanting to die: “‘I have had enough, Lord,’ he said. ‘Take my life’” (1 Kings 19:4).

How did the angel respond? He didn’t give Elijah a vision or an explanation of Scripture; he told him to get up and eat. When we are feeling discouraged, we often turn away from ordinary activities. But most of the time, when God comes to us, he doesn’t bring visions. He gives us the inspiration to do the simplest, most natural things— things we would never have imagined he was in. As we do them, we discover him there.

Discouragement is an inevitable part of human experience. It’s in the nature of a rock to never be sad, not of a human being. If we were never sorrowful, we would never be overjoyed. We have a capacity for delight and sadness both, and it is only normal that we should be brought low by certain things.

In times of difficulty, our safeguard lies in doing what God asks of us, however small and insignificant his request may seem. If instead we try to block out our sadness, if we ignore it or push it down, we will only succeed in deepening it. But if we sense intuitively that the Spirit wants us to do something and we do it, our sadness begins to lift. Immediately we arise and obey; we enter a higher plane of life.

Leviticus 21-22; Matthew 28

Wisdom from Oswald

Sincerity means that the appearance and the reality are exactly the same.Studies in the Sermon on the Mount, 1449 L

 

 

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Billy Graham – Our Eternal Home

 

I create new heavens . . .

—Isaiah 65:17

What kind of place is heaven?

First, heaven is home. The Bible takes the word “home” with all of its tender associations and with all of its sacred memories and tells us that heaven is home. Second, heaven is a home which is permanent. We have the promise of a home where Christ’s followers will remain forever. Third, the Bible teaches that heaven is a home which is beautiful beyond every imagination. Heaven could not help but be so, because God is a God of beauty. Fourth, the Bible teaches that heaven will be a home which is happy, because there will be nothing to make it sad. In heaven families and friends will be reunited. God’s house will be a happy home because Christ will be there. He will be the center of heaven. To Him all hearts will turn, and upon Him all eyes will rest.

Read 5 Answers on Heaven From Billy Graham

Prayer for the day

As I think of the promise of an eternal home with You and the reunion with my loved ones—I rejoice!

 

 

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Guideposts – Devotions for Women – The Joy of Salvation

Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, and uphold me by Your generous Spirit.—Psalm 51:12 (NKJV)

The joy of salvation shines brightest in the darkest of times, serving as a ray of hope and resilience. Your faith serves as a way for Christ’s light to shine in the world. Restore your spirit and invite Him to empower you.

Lord, restore to me the joy of Your salvation. Uphold me with Your generous Spirit.

 

 

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Every Man Ministry – Kenny Luck -Second Half Life Traps

 

But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus—the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God.  –Acts 20:24, nlt

If you missed yesterday’s reading and are under 50, I’d suggest you read it as it gives my thoughts on “traps” to be aware of in the first three adult decades of life (20s, 30s, 40s). And whether or not you are a “man of a certain age,” I’d encourage you to read today’s reading too.

50s – I enjoyed my 50s because it was the decade where I survived my mini midlife crisis without doing anything terribly stupid or destructive. God knows I did plenty wrong, but by His mercy, my life is still on course. The best thing about the 50s is that you have enough life experience to know your strengths and weaknesses. The trap is to keep doing things we aren’t good at, which only leads to disillusionment and frustration. (More on this in a later reading.) If you are unhappy in your job, don’t stay stuck. If your marriage has stagnated, don’t give up on it. Get the help that you and your spouse need to set things right. The enemy wants to convince us that all the boats have sailed and that life’s best opportunities have passed us by. Reject that lie.

By the time we reach “half time” in life, we have a pretty big suitcase of regrets and trauma, which gives Satan plenty of material to use against us. Don’t let him. We constantly need to remind ourselves that we are God’s children, and our identity is secure by His blood and in His victory.

60s – Though I’ve just entered my sixties, I’m going to tell you a secret: I love being this age. Why? First, because I’m still on this side of Earth’s dirt (and thankful for each new day). And second, I finally feel completely comfortable in my own skin. In the first half of life we build our lives—career, family, income, etc. And then, in the second half, we surrender a lot of what we built to God. Ego. Status. Reputation. Finances. It’s in that “letting go” process that I’ve personally found the greatest joy.

70s and Beyond – Though I don’t personally know what my 70s will bring, I know enough older God’s men to get a taste of what it’s like. Yes, health stuff can start to arise, but emotionally and spiritually, those men who allowed God to use their “crucifixion” in order to experience “resurrection” in their earlier decades are new reaping the rewards. They are some of the most energized, joyful, and productive Kingdom men I know!

It’s never too late to make a U-turn in your life, brother. I don’t care if you are 22 or 92, God allows spiritual do-overs. No, we can’t erase the past or make it go away. All the decisions we made across all the decades have left emotional and physical impressions upon this earth. But we can decide to once and for all surrender completely to Him. When we think about it, what other choice do we have? And when we do it, we realize it’s the greatest choice we had left to make.

Father, thank You for each decade of life and what it brings. Help me fall deeper in love with You so that when I reach my next “Zero” birthday (40, 50, etc.), I can look back and know that I left it all on the field for You.

 

 

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