Our Daily Bread – Not Easily Offended

 

Sensible people . . . earn respect by overlooking wrongs. Proverbs 19:11 nlt

Today’s Scripture

Proverbs 19:8-13

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God told Solomon, “I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there will never have been anyone like you, nor will there ever be” (1 Kings 3:12). Over time, Solomon authored many of the proverbs. His divine wisdom, however, didn’t prevent him from great acts of foolishness. In Deuteronomy 17:16-17, God warned that when Israel had a king, he wasn’t to multiply horses (a symbol of military security) or foreign wives (political alliances for security of the throne). The clear implication was that the king was to find his security in God—the one true king of Israel. Solomon foolishly ignored those warnings, acquiring so many horses that he needed to build cities for their keeping and care (1 Kings 10:26). In addition, he accumulated seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines (11:3). These women turned Solomon’s heart away from God (v. 4). Due to Solomon’s foolishness, God dealt with him in judgment (vv. 9-13).

Today’s Devotional

When I entered my church after several months of quarantine, I was excited to see members I hadn’t seen in a while. I realized that some members, especially older ones, just wouldn’t be back—some due to safety reasons and others, unfortunately, because they’d passed from this life. So I was quite excited when I spotted an older couple coming into the sanctuary and taking their normal seat behind me. I waved at them both. The man returned my greeting, while his wife stared at me without even smiling. I was hurt and wondered why.

It was a few Sundays later that I observed the same woman (who hadn’t returned my greeting) being helped by a friend who was showing her when to stand or sit—acting as her caregiver. My old church friend was apparently very sick and hadn’t recognized me. I’m glad I didn’t approach her or even get upset when she didn’t return my enthusiastic greeting.

Proverbs offers a lot of advice for living wisely, and not being easily offended is one of its gems. In fact, it says “sensible people . . . earn respect by overlooking wrongs” (19:11 nlt). Choosing not to get offended and learning to “control [our] temper” (v. 11 nlt) can bring us honor. It may require patience and “wisdom” (v. 8), but the rewards also are well worth getting over ourselves and choosing to love others.

Reflect & Pray

When were you offended by someone’s actions? When is it the right thing to overlook an offense?

God of mercy, thank You for overlooking the times I’ve offended You. Please give me the wisdom to do the same for others.

 

Read A Prayer for Patience and invite His peace into your daily life.

 

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Joyce Meyer – God Needs Our Faith

And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith.

Matthew 21:22 (ESV)

Recently I was talking with the Lord, and I told Him something that I needed Him to do for me. Immediately, I heard in my spirit, “I need your faith!” This was quite an eye-opening statement for me. Through these words, I realized that somehow, I had weakened in faith and was asking God for help out of need and desperation rather than in faith. We can ask God for many things yet fail to attach our faith to our requests.

I encourage you to ask in faith, believing that God hears you and wants to meet your need. If you know a scripture on which you can base your request, you can remind God that you believe it and that you trust Him to keep His promises. Praying the Word or filling your prayers with Scripture is a good thing to do. When we humbly remind God of His Word, it shows we are putting our trust in it and in Him. It also strengthens our faith while we wait for Him to answer us.

Prayer of the Day: Father, I am so thankful for the privilege of prayer, and I trust You to answer me when I pray in faith, according to Your will. Thank You for helping me. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

 

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Denison Forum – President Trump addresses joint session of Congress

 

“An extraordinary display of partisan scuffling”

President Donald Trump spoke to a joint session of Congress last night. This was not a State of the Union address. Rather, it followed the precedent set by President Reagan in 1981 and continued by every president since as they delivered speeches to Congress and the nation in the months after being inaugurated.

The one-hour, forty-minute address was the longest of its kind. Mr. Trump defended his policies, casting his first month in office as the most successful in history. He said he received a letter earlier in the day from Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky, saying he was ready to sign a proposed minerals deal between the two nations. And Mr. Trump said the mastermind of a 2021 bombing during the US withdrawal from Afghanistan had been detained.

However, seven minutes into the speech, Rep. Al Green (D., Texas) was escorted out of the chamber after rising from his seat and shouting at the president. Numerous other Democrats marched out of the chamber of their own accord; by the time the address was over, their side of the aisle was half empty.

Many Democratic women wore bright pink in a display of defiance. Some Democrats held up protest signs during the address. Others refused to attend; one hosted a Facebook Live town hall instead.

The Hill called Democrats’ actions “an extraordinary display of partisan scuffling even by the standards of the polarized modern era.”

The higher the stakes, the higher the emotions

If you support President Trump and his policies, you probably find these responses frustrating. If you agree with the Democrats, you may find their responses appropriate and even necessary.

We can wish for a system of governance that is less fraught with partisan conflict. But I have witnessed personally the alternatives available today and cannot recommend them to you.

I have traveled over the years in Cuba, China, and Russia. None see protests within their governments against their leaders, but this is because they are led by autocrats who severely punish dissent. By contrast, dissent and even chaos are common features when parliaments meet in the UK, Israel, and similar countries. This is because all (or at least most) of the viewpoints held in their nations are represented in their governments—often loudly.

Political opposition and division have been a part of American governance throughout our history. In the presidential election of 1800, for instance, John Adams’ camp warned that should Thomas Jefferson win the presidency, the US would become a nation where “murder, robbery, rape, adultery, and incest will openly be taught and practiced.” Jefferson’s camp in turn called Adams a “gross hypocrite” and “one of the most egregious fools on the continent.”

The higher the stakes, the higher the emotions.

What has changed over the years is the degree to which politics have become a religion for many. At the same time church membership and identification with Christianity have declined, political issues such as abortion and same-sex marriage have become more urgent and polarizing. Social media has enabled many to find community not in a religious congregation but within “tribes” of political alliance and allegiance. Demonizing the other side has become a central strategy of political campaigns and engagement.

As Gerard Baker laments in the Wall Street Journal, traditional media has taken on this religious tenor, advancing partisan agendas as orthodoxies and marginalizing or canceling those who disagree. Rather than holding leaders and parties accountable as neutral arbiters of nonpartisan fairness, they have become “like prayer books for a believing congregation . . . tending to the emotional well-being of committed believers.”

When politics replace religion

When politics replace religion, here are some consequences:

  • If our nation is to flourish, our leaders must be infallible, since we have no higher authority to trust.
  • Our citizens must be infallible in their political choices and personal conduct, since we have no wisdom or accountability beyond our own.
  • Those who disagree with us are by definition the enemies of what is right and good and must be opposed in any manner necessary.
  • Vengeance and retribution are ensured when the other side inevitably regains power.

As a result, participatory governance fails, leading either to autocracy or civil war.

By contrast, Julian of Norwich (1342–c. 1416) testified: “God is the ground and the substance, the very essence of nature; God is the true father and mother of natures.” When we worship and serve him as our Lord and King, making our political aspirations and engagements a means to the end of loving our Lord and our neighbor (Matthew 22:37–39), here are some consequences:

  • We know that our leaders are fallen and fallible, so we pray for them (1 Timothy 2:1–2) and support them (Romans 13:1–7). If we must choose, however, “We must obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29).
  • We know that citizens are fallen and fallible, so we hold each other accountable to biblical truth and morality with honesty, compassion, and humility (Ephesians 4:215).
  • Those who disagree with us are opponents rather than enemies, so we treat them with the respect we would wish from them (Matthew 7:12).
  • Vengeance and retribution are rejected, forgiving as we have been forgiven by Christ (1 John 1:9).

As a result, participatory governance flourishes as the means by which we serve each other to the glory of God (cf. Acts 2:42–474:32–37).

Abraham Lincoln famously warned, “As a nation of freemen, we must live through all time, or die by suicide.” The choice is ours.

“Words which do not give the light of Christ”

As you respond to last night’s presidential address to Congress, will you view those with whom you disagree through the lens of religious charity or political division? Will your words and actions promote gracious unity or partisan rancor? Will they enhance your witness for Christ or drive people further from your faith?

Mother Teresa noted,

“Words which do not give the light of Christ increase the darkness.”

Which kind of “words” are more common in our culture?

Which kind will you share with the world today?

Quote for the day:

“Our forgiving love toward men is the evidence of God’s forgiving love in us.” —Andrew Murray

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Days of Praise – Jesus Wept

 

by Michael J. Stamp

“Jesus wept.” (John 11:35)

This two-word verse is packed with meaning. Jesus hears his close friend Lazarus is quite ill, and Lazarus’ sisters, Mary and Martha, urgently send for Jesus. But Jesus waits two days before journeying to Bethany to see them, and Lazarus dies.

Jesus arrives at the tomb with the grieving sisters. His heart breaks for his friends, and He weeps with them (John 11:35). This is astonishing considering that Jesus raises Lazarus from the dead only moments later.

Why would the Son of God openly weep while knowing He was about to restore Lazarus to life? The answer is clear: Jesus loves us. The depth of His compassion is beyond comprehension. In Matthew 11:29, Jesus, our all-powerful Creator and Redeemer, describes His own character, telling us He is “meek and lowly in heart.”

Jesus’ love for us today is no less than His love for those three siblings. He empathizes with us when we struggle under the burdens of this broken Earth (Hebrews 4:15), and He mourns with us when we grieve.

No doubt Jesus’ resurrection miracle instantly changed Mary’s and Martha’s tears of grief into tears of unspeakably great joy. This miracle was a clear sign of Jesus’ own upcoming resurrection and His absolute power over creation and even death.

On the last day, when we meet Jesus face to face, we will be overcome with joy, and Jesus will enfold us in His arms, the same arms that have held us from the moment of our conception, and welcome us home to the place He’s prepared for us (John 14:3). “And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain….Behold, I make all things new” (Revelation 21:4-5). MJS

 

 

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My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers – Amid a Crowd of Paltry Things

 

As servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses. — 2 Corinthians 6:4

It takes almighty grace to take the next step—the next step in devotion, the next step in our studies, the next step in the kitchen, the next step in our duty—when there’s nothing to inspire us and no one to cheer us on. When there’s no vision from God and no enthusiasm, when it’s just the daily routine and the trivial task, it takes almighty grace.

Sometimes, it requires far more of the grace of God to take the next step than it does to preach the gospel. Perhaps at one time we had a clear vision of something God wanted us to accomplish, and we threw ourselves into it with excitement. But now the excitement has waned and we wonder how we’ll keep going. We begin to doubt that the vision will ever be realized. It will be, if we’ll keep working steadily until it is fulfilled. Every Christian has to participate in the essence of the incarnation; we have to bring it down into flesh-and-blood life and work it out through our fingertips. In the long run, what counts for God—and for people—is steady, persevering work in the unseen (2 Corinthians 4:18). The only way to live our lives uncrushed is to live looking to God.

Ask God to keep the eyes of your spirit open to the risen Christ, and it will be impossible for drudgery to crush you. Continually get away from pettiness of mind and thought. Remember Jesus’s example: “Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet” (John 13:14).

Deuteronomy 1-2; Mark 10:1-31

Wisdom from Oswald

It is perilously possible to make our conceptions of God like molten lead poured into a specially designed mould, and when it is cold and hard we fling it at the heads of the religious people who don’t agree with us.
Disciples Indeed

 

 

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Billy Graham – A Heart of Belief

 

If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

—Romans 10:9

The heart is the blood-pump of the body. It is also used metaphorically when we speak of affections and feelings. Since it is the central organ of the body and one of the most vital, the Bible speaks of it as the wellspring of life. Hence, it is used synonymously with “life.” When the Bible says, “Son, give me thine heart,” it doesn’t mean that we are to cut out our actual hearts and give them to God. It means that we are to give Him our lives, our all. When we come to Christ, we are not only to give intellectual assent with our minds, we are to “believe in our hearts.” We can believe in the historic Jesus, but if we have “saving faith” our belief must involve our whole being. When we believe with all our hearts, the will, the emotions, and the intellect are surrendered to Christ.

Prayer for the day

Lord, I believe and rejoice in the knowledge that You are alive and my Redeemer!

 

 

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Guideposts – Devotions for Women – The Kingdom Within

 

And when he was demanded of the Pharisees, when the kingdom of God should come, he answered them and said, The kingdom of God cometh not with observation: Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you.—Luke 17:20–21 (KJV)

Jesus emphasized the presence of the Kingdom of God within you. Embrace this truth and let it shape your thoughts, actions and relationships. While life’s journey may present challenges, walking in the awareness of God’s Kingdom within brings blessed rewards.

Lord, may I live each day in accordance with Your teachings, reflecting Your love and grace to those around me.

 

 

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Every Man Ministry – Kenny Luck -A Father’s Voice

 

The voice of the Lord is over the waters;
the God of glory thunders,
the Lord thunders over the mighty waters.
The voice of the Lord is powerful;
the voice of the Lord is majestic.

––Psalm 29:3-4

For a lot men I’ve met and ministered to over the years, there’s an invisible wall that makes it hard for them to hear the love in God’s voice. For most of them, it’s not because they don’t believe God loves them, or that He’s not a caring, compassionate God.

A lot of the time it’s because the voice they hear when they think of a “father” is the voice of their earthly dad. For some, that voice was harsh, judgmental, and condemning. I get that. As much as I loved and respected my own dad, a lot of the words I heard as a kid were pretty harsh. There was a lot of yelling too.

Sometimes, though, it wasn’t that a man’s dad wasn’t present, but that he just wasn’t involved or didn’t seem to care. As Holocaust survivor and Nobel Peace Prize laureate Elie Wiesel said, “The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference.” In some ways, being ignored is just as bad as being screamed at. Maybe worse.

According to a survey by Statista, only 40% of men say they had a “very good” relationship with their father.  So the next time you are in church or at a sports stadium, look around. Only four out of the 10 guys you see had a very good relationship with their dad.

In your own prayer time with God, whose voice are you hearing? When you imagine that small, still voice that Elijah heard on the mountain, what does it sound like? Is it harsh? Judging? Critical? Brother, one of the biggest accomplishments Satan can achieve is to convince you that God’s voice is unloving or hyper-critical. Don’t confuse God’s desire to grow and mature you into the man He’s designed you to be with a false god that’s always looking at you with a furrowed brow. The Father loves you too much to allow you to stay stuck on the outskirts of your destiny.

John 3:16 is one of the most quoted verses in the Bible. But this time, I want you to read it without earthly filters. Imagine Jesus smiling at you as He looks you in the eye and says with great compassion and love , this paraphrase of that verse:

“For God so loved YOU that He gave Me, His only begotten Son, that if you believe in Me you will not perish but have everlasting life.”

Your Father loved you THAT much. He LOVES you that much right now. Invite the Holy Spirit to replace the harsh voices you may hear when you pray with the true voice of the Father. It may take time, but I guarantee you this: He will never stop loving you, and He will always be there for you.

Father, it can be hard to hear Your loving voice sometimes. I accept Your love, and invite Your Holy Spirit to retune my ear to hear You more clearly.

 

 

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