We’ve all heard the children’s rhyme: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” The irony, of course, is that this much-recited ditty about brushing off wounding words is itself a lie. Words can hurt—and often do—even more than stones.
The power of words—both harmful and healing—is highlighted throughout the book of Proverbs. There are 915 proverbs in the entire biblical book, and approximately 150 address our speech. Proverbs 18 is another key chapter that focuses on this theme.
Verse 1 warns against social isolation and antagonistic communication. A fool selfishly holds himself aloof from community and spurns connection by starting arguments. The fool rushes to share opinions before taking the time to learn relevant information (v. 2). In verse 4, the “deep waters” are likely the deeper thoughts and feelings from which the bubbling “fountain of wisdom” will flow (v. 4). Our external communication reflects our interior world.
Verses 6–8 hammer home the devastating effects of the “lips of fools.” They initiate and intensify conflict. The fool’s words not only destroy other people; they also bring devastation upon oneself. Gossip is a particularly damaging use of language, which tastes deceptively sweet in the mouth. It spreads fast because we like how it tastes. But then, it penetrates our hearts and minds and soul, damaging our character.
The fool also jumps in prematurely, bringing shame upon himself (v. 13). In contrast, the wise man listens well and pursues knowledge (v. 15). Our words have consequences—both for the hearer and for us (vv. 20–21). They can hasten death or foster life.
Go Deeper
Proverbs 18 is convicting for all of us! What lesson struck home to you? How will you apply it?
Pray with Us
In the beginning You spoke life into existence, God. Teach us how to foster life through our words. May we have the self-control to not use words that will damage.
The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.Proverbs 18:21
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