“Intrapersonal communication” describes how we speak to ourselves—our thoughts, our self-talk, our reflection. It includes the way we process emotion, the lies we battle, and the truth we bring to bear. Philippians chapter 4 has much to say about the way we communicate within ourselves.
In Philippians 4, Paul calls the church to a communal life of joy and peace. First, he addresses them with gushing relational language—“my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown” (v. 1). The Philippian church was dear to Paul’s heart. They were his first church plant in Europe and had supported him throughout his ministry (v. 15).
Paul then focuses on a specific conflict between two women, Euodia and Syntyche, urging them to “be of the same mind in the Lord” (v. 2). He had already stressed the importance of unity in his letter (1:27–30; 2:1–4). Now he names these women—not to shame them, but to restore them to right communion. Churchwide unity, Paul advised, is fostered one relationship at a time. Paul also invited others to mediate. As we saw in Matthew 18, reconciliation often involves the community.
Then Paul laid out a pathway to supernatural peace. It begins with rejoicing—a command repeated twice (v. 4). Rejoice is a verb, something we do rather than feel. We communicate rejoicing to God and to others. Our reason to rejoice is the Lord, who promises His presence (v. 5b).
Paul encourages us to look outward and care for others with gentleness (v. 5a), bring our concerns to the Lord in prayer (v. 6), rest in His peace (v. 7), and settle our minds on what is true, right, lovely, and so on (v. 8). Only God (v. 9), can provide the supernatural peace to govern our hearts and our minds.
Go Deeper
Do you struggle to find peace? Which part of Paul’s advice can you practice today?
Pray with Us
When we practice unity with other believers, we have true joy. Give us gentleness and love to live in community well. Thank you for the fellowship that You bring!
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!Philippians 4:4